It happened during my secondary school life. The story goes like this... Everyone have their own best friend, where you can share everything with them. I have my besties too, a circle of three. First, our friendship started with two, then came our new friend, we started a new circle of friend. Not long after that the three of us become close and go everywhere together. It's one of my best memory with em' both.
As we entered secondary school, few things changed. The three of us were not in the same class. We attended the same school though. Knowing many new friends. Still, we went to the canteen together, took the same bus and hang out together every free time. Things started to change months after that, if I not mistaken. Different classes, different schedule. With my class schedule, I can't joined our usual hang out. One things for sure that I remember why the three of us started to part away, it's just because of girls gossip, maybe.
All of this happen because of girls thing. Teenagers tend to show their own ego and proud. Gossip spread. Who is the best? Who's popular? When our friend doing one mistake, at the same time, there were two or three people will start the talking. That time without thinking about the truth, I join my friends gossip. It hurts my best friend. I realises start from that day, I never stayed or hang out with both of my besties. We were not close like before anymore. Until one day, both of them decided to transfer to another school. They told me about it. Still, I can't followed them as my parents will not allow me to do so.
Years after that I realises I have took the wrong side. Honestly, I never meant to do so in the first place. To think of it, I knew why I'm doing so. It's because I didn't want to be the left over. I joined their saying and forget about my real friends. I broke my own circle of best friends. I really felt sorry for the three of us.
End of my secondary years, I have the chance to meet with my used to be besties. We were still like before, but not that close. But, I never have the chance to meet with our another Besties who graduate from her secondary school till the end. Luckily, I found her in the social networking, which we called it as FB. We comment each other and sharing status. I'm glad to met her again.
Lesson to be learn: Never forget people that close to you. Try to understand their situation before judging them. Don't choose the bad side as it will took away all the wonderful friends. Try to understand why she act like tahat, Maybe she had her own reason. Never talks behind.
Real friends never talk behind. Peace. ^^
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